How to not be a "Victim."

I was listening to a "teaching moment" today by Heather Madder of BestLifeDesigns and found it interesting: Victims blame others for their troubles, powerful people take accountability. Stop blaming others for your weight/health issues, financial trouble, relationship challenges, etc. Be authentic with yourself! Being honest with yourself and your pain. Truth will allow you to heal. Tell people the truth. You are designed and destined to be whole. Take inventory of where you are right now and accountability for where you are right now. "Any time you have an overreaction to an issue, you have an unresolved issue that is not healed." "I am cocreating all that I am experiencing right now!" You can ( and are the only one that can) save you (with help from the Creator)! The key to every victims prison is inside of you. "What would you give to wake up tomorrow morning and open your eyes and have a life that you absolutely love! To have a family or people close to you or around you that celebrate you, that honor you, that trust you, to have a job that you just cannot wait to get to--where you are making money, plenty of money to care for yourself and the people that you love, and have a fit healthy body with tons of energy and a fir active life? What would you give for that?" Here's what is required: I create what I choose--I am a cocreator. Next step is to seek truth (change).